WELCOME EMILY WHITE, author of
Elemental (available now!) She took some time to tells us about being a writer AND and mother!
1. First, tell us about your book!
Well first, let me give you the line:
Just because seventeen-year-old Ella can burn someone to the ground with her mind doesn’t mean she should.
But she wants to.
Eh? Eh???
Hehehe! Elemental is a sci-fi set in a far away galaxy with lots of explosions, some kissing, a lot of sacrifice, and fairies. Teleporting fairies.
2. The million dollar question…with small children and husband, how do you find time to write?
I really don't know. I think it's by the grace of God alone. LOL! I get up early in the morning to get the blogging stuff all done so I have the entirety of their two hour nap to get some writing in. That's about all the time I get because once they're up it's a whirlwind of mommy time and getting chores done and making dinner. Although, I'll admit that there are some days *cough*weeks*cough* that I don't exactly do all my chores. No one really notices dust, do they??
And nighttime is for the hubs. I've tried writing at night, but it doesn't work out so well. :)
3. What does a “normal” day look like for you?
6:00am--get up and answer bloggety comments from the day before
7:00am--if I haven't written and scheduled a blog post, I write one for the day (on m/w/f), otherwise it's pure cuddle time with the boys
8:00am--Make and eat breakfast (this is also story time for the boys--currently working through the Narnia series)
9:00am--social networking (i.e. check blogs, facebook, twitter)
10:00am--dishes and/or working with one of my crit partners on one of our many projects
11:00am--Make and eat lunch
12:00-2:00--Writing time
2:00--Usually tea time at my house
3:00--if it's nice outside, I take the boys outside to play. If not, we read stories or play games
4:00-5:00--play time with the boys can extend into this time, but it's usually no later than five that I start making dinner
6:30-10:00--Hubs time
Hehehe! Boy that was pretty detailed! But I like my schedules and my days typically look like this (unless I go out with my sisters or mom or need to grocery shopping, etc.)
4. Does your family/children support your writing? Any specific good stories to show us how?
I don't think my children have any idea what's going on! My eldest (who is four) does have a little play laptop of his own and whenever he has it on, he says he's working. It's so cute! My husband, on the other hand, has been talking me up at his job. Everybody there is apparently pretty excited (these are all truckers, mind you) and they all have one of my bookmarks. LOL!
5. Does your family help with your writing? Give you ideas? Because let’s face it, young children come up with some great stories/ideas/etc! My own daughter has helped me in this regard once…or twice.
I've come up with some ideas from both my immediate and extended family. In fact, there's a cat in Elemental with the most hilarious name I've ever heard! It's actually a real cat that my sister's niece named. Are you ready for it?? Fluffy Nuts! It's so wrong, but brilliant.
My husband does help me with the tech stuff. He's big into sci-fi, too, so he's always letting me know when something sounds cheesy or just not techy enough.
6. Do you think scheduling/writing/taking care of your brood will get easier as your kids get older?
I sure hope so!! My eldest starts kindergarten next Fall, so though I am inwardly weeping at the thought of that, I'm also a little eager to see if I'll have more time to write. For one, I won't have to split up arguments! That should give me at LEAST two extra hours. :)
7. Editing, for me, takes the longest and this tends to be the toughest thing for my family to deal with (me during that time, that is. LoL). What would you say is the part of writing and being a mother you struggle with the most?
Getting into the middle of writing. It takes me a while to get into that nice little state where everything just flows smoothly. When I'm there, I am a BEAR if anyone rips me out of it. I once cried because I'd hit a low point and thought to myself, "Everything I write will be mediocre because the brilliant stuff goes the way of the dodo whenever my kids/hubby pull me out of my thought process." So the rule at my house is, if I'm staring very hard and thoughtfully at my computer, DO NOT speak to me. I don't even need to be typing, just don't speak. Because half the time I like to play it out in my head before I type (hence me losing a lot of stuff when people break the rule).
8. If you could teach your children the most important lesson about the writerly path you’ve chosen, what would it be?
Always do what brings you joy. And then I'd teach them the difference between joy and happiness. Happiness depends on positive things and good feelings. A person feels joy for something even at their lowest point because they know they're doing what they were meant to do.
Thanks so much for stopping by Emily! I'm SO looking forward to reading your book! For those of you readers who are interested, here's some links for ya':
Elemental (the book)
Elemental (fan page)
Emily White's blog
Happy Hump day everyone!
~JD